This morning I come across an interesting topic: In a relationship is viewing porn healthy or unhealthy?
I'm away from home a lot and I'm blessed with having a girlfriend both understanding and open-minded who trusts me. I in-turn trust her, because we have to. I have faith that she won't abuse my long absences by bringing other men into our bed, and she has to believe that I won't use my time away from her to find other women either. With this in mind, we have a very easy going view of pornography, it's packed up in my suitcase for my trips without a worry. There is no secrecy about it, no guilt, and in fact should I forget to pack it she has in the past reminded me herself.
I feel that we aren't isolated in this treatment. Our married friends have similar Lessee Faire views on adult entertainment, and in-general I think that Canadians are fairly easy going about the whole thing, however this may just be an example of the company I keep.
So I ask you the reader: When in a relationship, is porn healthy or unhealthy?